Who is the misunderstood unlikely patroness of bossy older sisters?! St. Martha

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Who is St. Martha?

We meet St. Martha in the scriptures, along with her sister Mary and her brother Lazarus. From scripture and tradition, we know that Martha, Mary, and Lazarus lived in Bethany (two miles from Jerusalem). Jesus was their frequent guest and a beloved friend. Martha witnessed one of the greatest miracles of Jesus, the resurrection of her brother Lazarus!

What is Martha famous for?

Martha is probably best known for this story in the book of Luke:

Luke 10:38 Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village; and a woman named Martha  welcomed Him into her home. 39 She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord’s feet, listening to His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me.” But the Lord answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things; 42 but only one thing is necessary, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”

Is it better to be a Martha or a Mary?

This comment in my comment box spurred my interest:

“Surely if Jesus — who has perfect knowledge — reprimanded Martha, but not Mary, then I need to learn something from that, and not assume...”

I’m reminded that the scriptures are full of many layers and levels. Great scholars have poured over these passages for centuries, and yet they still hold meaning and interest for bible students. Many times there are different angles to the same story.

The story of the prodigal son comes to mind. I once heard Josh Harris speak and he reminded us that while the prodigal had the money – he was having a good time!! Very true and it’s an angle that doesn’t get much play in Sunday School.

I also remember the first time I heard Professor Scott Hahn speak of Abraham and his attempt to sacrifice Isaac. This occurred somewhere in Salem, which later became part of JeruSALEM. Indeed God sacrifices his son in a place where Abraham does not need to sacrifice his. The symbolism and meanings in that revelation are rich!

So I took a fresh look at Martha and Mary. I noted, perhaps for the first time, that –

  • Martha is the one who invites Jesus in.
  • She welcomes him.
  • She opens her home and heart to him!

Wow… been there. Many times. Part of having a Domestic Church is trying to make sure that Jesus is welcome there as well as in the hearts of each family member. And maybe that’s where Martha didn’t follow through.

Jesus does become a deep part of Mary’s heart, and certainly her mind. I’m sure that’s what Martha wanted for her sister. But at the same time, maybe she was jealous that she hadn’t allowed Jesus into her own heart and mind as she had intended. She let the daily things take her away instead of moving her closer. I’ve done that too.

Behind the scenes of the story

Back in 2013, I heard a very educational homily on this. This incident with Mary, Martha, and Jesus took place during the Jewish Feast of Sukkot, probably in late September or early October. It was a time of joyful celebration and abundance from harvest time.  The home of Mary and Martha was in the town of Bethany on the Jericho Highway and many hundreds of pilgrims were expected to travel the highway on their way to Jerusalem.

Martha (and everyone else in the village) was getting ready for the hundreds of pilgrims by preparing meals and lodging for them.  This was not just a simple dinner that Martha was preparing but a huge feast requiring a lot of time and effort. And I think perhaps St. Martha wasn’t as thankful as she could have been because of the extra work and labor she had to perform.

As a wife and a mother I plead guilty to that as well – and am always trying to remind myself that this busy season of life is short and even though sometimes it is a tremendous responsibility, I should be thankful for the hardship that comes even with the abundant blessing and learn the lessons from it that I need to learn for my own sanctification.

The bossy sister!

The other part that strikes me is the part where she asks the Lord to “make my sister” do something. How many times have I asked God that my will be done instead of His?” Probably too numerous to count. God’s not a puppet master. I’m sure prayers like that make him shake his head.
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Mr. Pete had an interesting thought of his own on Martha and Mary. He thinks Jesus probably let the ladies work it out in sisterly love while he sought out the company of Lazarus! Maybe the Lord lets us heal ourselves that way too.

The rest of the story …

After Pentecost, Martha, Mary, and Lazarus ended up in France! Their little town of Provence was being terrorized by an Asian Sea monster (half dragon, half fish) called “La Tarasque.” It was killing citizens and sinking ships. Armed with a cross, holy water, and her girdle, she subdued the creature and the townsfolk were able to kill it.

So that’s right folks – St. Martha, the housekeeper was also a dragon slayer!

Saint Martha

Symbols: Water pot and asperge; cooking utensils; ladle or skimmer; broom; bunk of keys at her girdle; two asperges; dragon bound with a girdle (symbolizing temptation resisted); torch (symbolizing enlightenment and zeal); censer (symbolizing prayer and worship); boat; covered table with cloth, cups, pitcher and bowl containing fruit.

Ways to Celebrate

Holy water played a role in Martha’s life after Jesus ascended. She was also very domestic. So make a homemade holy water font!

You need a wooden plaque If your plaque doesn’t have a wooden notch on the back for hanging, you’ll also need some appliances to hang it on the wall. Find a holy picture or a holy card. Glue or Mod Podge it to the plaque. Let it dry.

When it is dry, hot glue, or Elmer’s glue a shot glass to the center of your plaque. When that is dry you can put a small sponge on the bottom and add your holy water! Here are the ones we made!

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FOR MORE INFORMATION:

Liturgical Year – St. Martha
Fish eaters
A Nun’s Story

november 2015 341 elena and kay
Me and my little sister.

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