"You are tenacious. I love a woman who won't give up." William Luse 6/1/04
"Kudos also to Elena, who proved that she can take it as well as she can dish it." TSO 6/4/04
"the wonderful Elena" Nathan Nelson 8/1/04
"Elena, I quake at the sound of your name" John B-Catholic Packer Fan 8-12-04
"I like your writing and your spunk." Todd Flowerday, Catholic Sensibility 11-8-04
"Elena is is so many shades of stupid they don't make a Crayola box big enough to begin coloring her" Anonymous TWA blog 2/05
"Well, Elena cuts to the chase. Says it like it is and doesn't mince her words." Alexa of Domestic Excellence
"Elena, a woman I have little in common with but have come to be fond of" Cecily Kellog 9/15/05
"I work nonstop to help people with stupidly limited perspectives, like you, accept this reality. Even when it’s hopeless, like in your case. You live in a fantasy. I can’t help you" Also Cecily Kellog 07/2020
"Your witness is horrendous" JCecil of Liberal Catholic News
"Truth, love, charity, and, oh yeah, sensitivity, decorum, good taste and a dollop of wit. That's more like it. Keep rockin'!" PMC 12/05
"I've also been reading this blog for some time and just noticed I hadn't added you to my favorite blogs. Done!" The Mighty Barrister 5/21/04
"Now go haul your huge, sagging, obese, smelly old body out of the chair and take care of those kids of yours before I call CPS and have them do an inspection and see what you're really up to when you're supposed to be homeschooling them." NMH 2006
"That you are one narcissistic, bizaare individual." Jill Filipovic on Feministe Blog September 2006
"I could certainly continue to go back and forth (and believe me, I would love to!!!!!), but that would be answering a fool according to his folly." Amy-anti-Catholic blogger at Blessed Motherhood 7/07/07!
"Where's Elena? We need Elena." Kathryn the Daring Young Mom 2/17/06
"I have no problem with Elena. I find her answers to be quite lucid, witty, and insightful." David B commenting on In Today's News 10/29/05
"She's not cranky, she just senses happiness and snuffs it out." Gabe, age 9, after being scolded for not being ready for swim practice. 12/0
"you are one narcissistic, bizaare, individual." Jill Filipovic 9/11/2006
"Elena of My Domestic Church get’s my nomination for living a life of loveliness that I could only ever dream of. She’s an awesome wife and mother, a deeply committed Catholic, a proponent of pro-life issues, a hands on make-and-bake-and-cut-and-stick-musical-momma, a prayerful, compassionate, thoughtful and passionate woman who endeavours to live a christocentric life in her own euphonious way. Yes, I am proud to know her as a blog buddy and sharing in her trials and her triumphs via reading her blog over the last few years has impacted me more than she could know… and always for the better." Deb from Ukok's Place 08/2007
"I have a feeling elena never moves on from anything. other than the couch to the fridge." 08/2007 commenter on the now defunct Rock Star Mommy Blog.
"I think you're a shrew." Anne Basso 7/08
"Even with our differences, I will say one thing--she's smart. I may not always agree with what she says, but she doesn't spout unsupported garbage as fact." Ruthjoec aka JAnn from AOL Catholic message boards and This That and the Other Thing Blog
"I was wrong. You were right. God bless you" T from LO2W blog 3/6/2008
"As a Catholic Mother myself, I enjoy reading My Domestic Church. It's one of the many blogs that I follow and read regularly. It's refreshing to read comments from a mother that shares your views. So much of what Elena has me nodding my head in agreement. I'm sure that any Catholic-Mother will enjoy reading Elena's blog." SAMinIL on Blog Catalog 9/09
"Because of my interest in Benedictine spirituality and monasticism, began reading about the Domestic Church. This site is an excellent resource. Like any good family it is alive with energy and the Holy Spirit." John on Blog Catalog 12/08
"I watched your talk on YouTube and thought you and your husband did a wonderful job. Very natural, not stilted. Your account of your child, Raphael's, life and death were extremely touching and profound." Eileen via e-mail 02/21/2010
"Happy Easter to you Elena! Four years ago I discovered Candy. Two years ago I discovered you. Last night (Easter Vigil) I was received into full communion with the Catholic Church. It was a beautiful night and one I will remember forever. Thanks to you and Kelly for clearing up any confusion there may be about what the Church believes, teaches, and proclaims. Have a blessed Easter season!" From a VTC reader. 05/2010
"Elena, You completely 'foul up' the catechism. I repeat you are a nice lady, but your lack of education and knowledge, as your distorted answers show," Jack from Liberal Catholic Sports Music 1/9/2009
"you repeatedly impress me. I know we have very different political views that show up in our comments to each other at times, but I have never once felt anything but generosity from you toward who I am." JB via e-mail 7/23/2010
"The post I really love, though is 28 Things I Learned About Marriage in 28 Years at My Domestic Church. In fact, it's so good I plan to show it on the first day of class for my Family and Society course this." Sister Edith at Monastic Musings
Elena was animated, enthusiastic, faith shined through! She was very real. For us, she was relatable and so honest and open. She motivated us the most and we are thankful that she shared so much of her personal life to show example. some PreCana evals from 2014
"you never cease to amaze me, and everyone else! You are unbelievably unforgettably wow! I'm so blessed to be your cousin and friend. Dan - My domestic cousin 5/2014
"Elena: A flute could never sound or feel so etherial as when you play." Marissa
"Your comments are continually provoking, idiotic and condescending" my nephew 11/2018
" As a mom of littles, I really appreciate moms like you tackling these tough issues and sharing your wisdom!" Laura commenting on Catholicmom 06/2019
"Thanks so much for a thoughtful article faithful to the teachings of our faith, while being compassionate towards gay people."Tim commenting on Catholicmom dot com 06/2019
"Grandma, snuggle me!" - My domestic granddaughter 2017
"When Elena turns the other cheek, it's so she can whip around the other side with full force!" Mr. Pete My Domestic Husband!
Those taxes that you missed had nothing to do with Obama. They are tax code. Remember- the tax code was not changed.
I would be happy to have my 6.5% of my salary from the last 35 years back.
I do notice that giving to charity was 8th on your list. Supporting the poor in your neighborhood is not high on the list.
1. Obama reluctantly allowed the Bush tax cuts to stay in place. Nonetheless there is a fear amongst businesses and business owners of onorous taxes coming down the line. To really improve the economy he should have made the tax cuts permanent or even slashed them further.
2. Who wouldn't be happy to get 6.% back?
3. I have children to raise so my priorities are a bit different than say yours. Nonetheless, the kids of this inner-city neighborhood know that this is the house for summer fun and summer foods!
4. You might also note that payment for medical tests not covered by our insurance (or covered after we meet a $5000 deductible) was #11. Paying college costs for my sons was #12.
I took out my comment because I was being too sarcastic. I recognize that you are doing the best with you and yours- as we are doing the best with ours. Happy Sunday!
Well I read them any way and already started this reply so here goes.
My point on this post was to illustrate on the micro level how taxes affect a community. The things I cannot buy and the services that I cannot pay for affect not only me and my family but also other people. That was the point. If President Obama understood that, he could reassure people that there will be no new tax hikes or he could slash taxes and help jump start this economy which only gew by 1.3% by last reports.
I have no idea which programs should be cut because that is not my area of expertise. I think all taxpaid programs need to be held accountable for results.
I wasn't speaking of "parties" at my house but everyday summertime days where kids wander over to play in Rosie's pool, or play football in the street with Noah and Izzy, or stop by the garage to hear Gabe and Sam play. Sometimes if parents agree, I can take some with us to the library. Again, my small part on the micro level.
Our medical deductible is $5000/person/year. There are currently 7 of us on it. If by chance we all met our deductible, it would be a financial hardship.
I homeschool. I hope my kids have good study skills and reading, writing and math skills. I'm helping them to CLEP and College Plus. But they have to be in charge of their own educations. I think it will make them responsible adults.
For 16 years since Mr. Pete started his business we have been in a vicarious financial position. We poured our time and treasure into that hoping to make a goal of it. We finally have a little money, I'm just sorry to see some of it go. I can't help feeling a little sad about it.
that's preccarious not vicarious- Freudian slip.
It is weird- a site called toolshell has attached itself to your page for me. http://toolshell.org/
I get what you are saying about taxes. I would be better off if I did not have to pay the ones I owe as well. We have never made a whole lot of money. Our kids already make more than we ever did.
We have only filed a long form three years in our 29 years. It does bug me that I was unable to write off my equipment, car and clothing because I was a teacher and not an independent business person. Heck, I was not even allowed to save as much for my retirement. But I know the risks of each- and I choose what I choose. I was happy for my years of service.
The point is, El, you blame the Mr Obama for EVERYTHING. When GW as President you always defended him- stating he was only the President and did not have power over everything. Even when he had both houses and did not pass any meaningful anti abortion laws- you continue to praised him. I defended him in war- until I found out that the information was wrong and now we are simply nation building- something he promised not to do. Between his anti abortion and no nation building stance I voted for him twice. He never fulfilled his promises. Still he was a good man and tried- even though he followed poor counsel at times.
I recognize that all politicians are people. They all pull on their pants and (hopefully) kiss their kids out the door. By blaming one person for something that many are doing is unfair to the republic that we live in. I have lived in an autocracy. This is not even close.
You come across that you hate one person and blame one person- you can see NO good at all. Is that what you really want your children to think? It is all in the hands of one person? Really?
I see so many more dimensions to people. I guess I am blessed (or cursed in your eyes). I guess that is how you can half quote Jesus in " the poor will always be with you" and I think "when I was hungry you gave me to eat". I always did favor Matthew and Luke gospels.
I don't hate anyone. I said two years ago that he seemed like a pleasant guy with a great sense of humor. He is not an effective leader, he does not like to roll up his sleeves and get down into the hard work. I heard one of his supporters even talk about that this morning. He simply is not experienced enough for this job.
It is not an either or on the gospels- We will always have poor. We are always to help them. There is nothing in the gospels however about passing off that obligation and responsibiilty to the government.