"You are tenacious. I love a woman who won't give up." William Luse 6/1/04
"Kudos also to Elena, who proved that she can take it as well as she can dish it." TSO 6/4/04
"the wonderful Elena" Nathan Nelson 8/1/04
"Elena, I quake at the sound of your name" John B-Catholic Packer Fan 8-12-04
"I like your writing and your spunk." Todd Flowerday, Catholic Sensibility 11-8-04
"Elena is is so many shades of stupid they don't make a Crayola box big enough to begin coloring her" Anonymous TWA blog 2/05
"Well, Elena cuts to the chase. Says it like it is and doesn't mince her words." Alexa of Domestic Excellence
"Elena, a woman I have little in common with but have come to be fond of" Cecily Kellog 9/15/05
"I work nonstop to help people with stupidly limited perspectives, like you, accept this reality. Even when it’s hopeless, like in your case. You live in a fantasy. I can’t help you" Also Cecily Kellog 07/2020
"Your witness is horrendous" JCecil of Liberal Catholic News
"Truth, love, charity, and, oh yeah, sensitivity, decorum, good taste and a dollop of wit. That's more like it. Keep rockin'!" PMC 12/05
"I've also been reading this blog for some time and just noticed I hadn't added you to my favorite blogs. Done!" The Mighty Barrister 5/21/04
"Now go haul your huge, sagging, obese, smelly old body out of the chair and take care of those kids of yours before I call CPS and have them do an inspection and see what you're really up to when you're supposed to be homeschooling them." NMH 2006
"That you are one narcissistic, bizaare individual." Jill Filipovic on Feministe Blog September 2006
"I could certainly continue to go back and forth (and believe me, I would love to!!!!!), but that would be answering a fool according to his folly." Amy-anti-Catholic blogger at Blessed Motherhood 7/07/07!
"Where's Elena? We need Elena." Kathryn the Daring Young Mom 2/17/06
"I have no problem with Elena. I find her answers to be quite lucid, witty, and insightful." David B commenting on In Today's News 10/29/05
"She's not cranky, she just senses happiness and snuffs it out." Gabe, age 9, after being scolded for not being ready for swim practice. 12/0
"you are one narcissistic, bizaare, individual." Jill Filipovic 9/11/2006
"Elena of My Domestic Church get’s my nomination for living a life of loveliness that I could only ever dream of. She’s an awesome wife and mother, a deeply committed Catholic, a proponent of pro-life issues, a hands on make-and-bake-and-cut-and-stick-musical-momma, a prayerful, compassionate, thoughtful and passionate woman who endeavours to live a christocentric life in her own euphonious way. Yes, I am proud to know her as a blog buddy and sharing in her trials and her triumphs via reading her blog over the last few years has impacted me more than she could know… and always for the better." Deb from Ukok's Place 08/2007
"I have a feeling elena never moves on from anything. other than the couch to the fridge." 08/2007 commenter on the now defunct Rock Star Mommy Blog.
"I think you're a shrew." Anne Basso 7/08
"Even with our differences, I will say one thing--she's smart. I may not always agree with what she says, but she doesn't spout unsupported garbage as fact." Ruthjoec aka JAnn from AOL Catholic message boards and This That and the Other Thing Blog
"I was wrong. You were right. God bless you" T from LO2W blog 3/6/2008
"As a Catholic Mother myself, I enjoy reading My Domestic Church. It's one of the many blogs that I follow and read regularly. It's refreshing to read comments from a mother that shares your views. So much of what Elena has me nodding my head in agreement. I'm sure that any Catholic-Mother will enjoy reading Elena's blog." SAMinIL on Blog Catalog 9/09
"Because of my interest in Benedictine spirituality and monasticism, began reading about the Domestic Church. This site is an excellent resource. Like any good family it is alive with energy and the Holy Spirit." John on Blog Catalog 12/08
"I watched your talk on YouTube and thought you and your husband did a wonderful job. Very natural, not stilted. Your account of your child, Raphael's, life and death were extremely touching and profound." Eileen via e-mail 02/21/2010
"Happy Easter to you Elena! Four years ago I discovered Candy. Two years ago I discovered you. Last night (Easter Vigil) I was received into full communion with the Catholic Church. It was a beautiful night and one I will remember forever. Thanks to you and Kelly for clearing up any confusion there may be about what the Church believes, teaches, and proclaims. Have a blessed Easter season!" From a VTC reader. 05/2010
"Elena, You completely 'foul up' the catechism. I repeat you are a nice lady, but your lack of education and knowledge, as your distorted answers show," Jack from Liberal Catholic Sports Music 1/9/2009
"you repeatedly impress me. I know we have very different political views that show up in our comments to each other at times, but I have never once felt anything but generosity from you toward who I am." JB via e-mail 7/23/2010
"The post I really love, though is 28 Things I Learned About Marriage in 28 Years at My Domestic Church. In fact, it's so good I plan to show it on the first day of class for my Family and Society course this." Sister Edith at Monastic Musings
Elena was animated, enthusiastic, faith shined through! She was very real. For us, she was relatable and so honest and open. She motivated us the most and we are thankful that she shared so much of her personal life to show example. some PreCana evals from 2014
"you never cease to amaze me, and everyone else! You are unbelievably unforgettably wow! I'm so blessed to be your cousin and friend. Dan - My domestic cousin 5/2014
"Elena: A flute could never sound or feel so etherial as when you play." Marissa
"Your comments are continually provoking, idiotic and condescending" my nephew 11/2018
" As a mom of littles, I really appreciate moms like you tackling these tough issues and sharing your wisdom!" Laura commenting on Catholicmom 06/2019
"Thanks so much for a thoughtful article faithful to the teachings of our faith, while being compassionate towards gay people."Tim commenting on Catholicmom dot com 06/2019
"Grandma, snuggle me!" - My domestic granddaughter 2017
"When Elena turns the other cheek, it's so she can whip around the other side with full force!" Mr. Pete My Domestic Husband!
I loved listening to Fr. Corapi too. I had posted a prayer request when the first news broke. I posted his YouTube video either yesterday or the day before of his recent decission. The more I read the sadder I become.
I find it so unbelievable…I do keep praying though.
thank you
I completely understand your disappointment, Elena, but I'm confused by some of your words. You refer to his "fall from grace" and I'm wondering what serious sin you know he is guilty of that the rest of us don't? As far as any of us know, he is innocent of the charges.
As far as his appearance. I don't prefer it but I wouldn't call it an indication of serious sin any more that the obesity we see in other priests we know.
I am deeply disappointed and saddened by the turn of events with Corapi but I still think we need to be careful not to lead others into speculation of the state of another's soul. What's the point?
But I get it and why you posted it… just thought I should share my concern as a sister in Christ. God bless you!
I used the phrase "fall from grace" not theologically but more as a common phase in the vernacular as in "To fall from position of high esteem."
I don't know what his appearance means, but it made me feel uneasy. Most of the men I have known under a vow (husband, grandfather, friends etc.) have cared less about their appearance as time goes by because they are busy supporting, helping, loving, others – family, children, parents, peers. (Which is not to say that I don't think Mr. Pete is handsome, because I do – but last night for graduation he grabbed a quick shirt from Gabriel Brothers to wear on the way home! Between caring for his job and his family that was all he had time for!)
I'm not making any comments at all on Father Caropi's soul. But I'll be damned (probably literally) if I'm going to let a debacle like this affect the souls of my children.
Agreed about the children. But let's make sure we're clear about language since we're public with this.
The bloggers this last week have been like vultures and tried, convicted and hung the man a thousand times over. There has been so much speculation over things like appearance and what not that it's getting a little out of control.
btw-Mr. Pete is handsome and so is your whole beautiful family. I mean no offense and still love your blog to pieces. I just hate what I see happening to the man at our own hands. God bless.
I just linked the phrase "Fall from grace" to the popular phrase site so that readers can see that I did not have a theological meaning. That sentence also says "…when the messenger falls from grace" a generic generality which I think is universally true. Hope that helps to clarify and thanks for the comments!
I think it MIGHT mean something when a person chooses to make himself look like Anton LaVey. Just sayin'.
It is very sad when a person comes to Christ and (seems to) turn away.
I have learned that some have to reach into the depth of the bottom in order to be a great saint. Some have attempted to put themselves above God and they fall eventually.
I don't know this priest. I did know the founder of Life Teen and warned many that his rise was a false one- since I had hear his "plan" to become rich so many years before. He has lost his priesthood- but hopefully, somehow, God will guide him back so his soul is saved.
When "great men" fall it is our opportunity to teach our children that our own sinful nature can easily take over if we do not center ourselves on our faith in God.
Then when they are tempted- or walk away- they can see that the Church and the Lord lovingly accepts all sinners back. Never close a door- I think that is God's motto.
Whether he is guilty or innocent of what he's accused of seems almost irrelevant. And yes, there may be corrupt people in the Church trying to push him out, but we don't answer evil with evil, Fr. Corapi should understand this. I got the chills listening to his message, because it is clear that at one time he was truly in love with Christ and listening to Him and spreading His message. Now he cannot even mention the name of Jesus Christ or Mary, those who he once loved so much. I believe this is because his heart is sick and knows he is not doing the right things. At one time he said he needed nothing in life but the Holy Sacrament. I pray he remembers that. There is only one Adversary in this life, and only one Truth.